The lesson of being thankful

This post will be short because there is really no need to elaborate on it because its pretty much straight to the point. So say for a example you want something like shoes that are really popular and what you get is a different pair of shoes. You should be thankful for that, Complaining about not getting the "perfect" pair of shoes is just selfish. That person who got you those shoes did what they had to do and at the end of the day you have shoes. Lets go from materialistic things to emotional things like love. Just because someone might not pay attention to you does not mean that you revert to the first assumption which is that the other is cheating or they don't love you anymore. I'm not saying that you should completely forget about it but put it on the back burner and think of other things than the mainstream ideas. Maybe that person is dealing with themselves internally or maybe somethings bothering them. Talk to that person and find out whats going on. But saying all of that just sums up to the main lesson which is just being thankful.

I really didn't work to hard on this one but I'm trying. 
Stay positive. Xx

Hey Important

Hey I just wanted to say some announcements

So I've updated my account with a new background and its more toned down. So no more weird face background of Calum Hood(5 Seconds Of Summer Bassist) and no more weird colors.

Next is that I have a new idea if any of you all want to discuss about it. The idea is like I get something that you all can fill out if you want me to discuss it or want advice. I don't know if anyone has done that because I rarely read on Blogger. But I will somehow have it so that you guys can post ideas for me to discuss with me about.

Also I have put in a request to get Ads on my blog. They are reviewing everything, I just wanted to tell you all before they tell me either that I get them or I don't.. I just wanted to tell you but its not confirmed. Also they won't be in between post they will be on the sides. If they mess around with your computer then you can get a Ad blocker app from the chrome store.

Thank you to all of the people who read this and I hope that there is one person out there that I make happy at least.

Stay positive. Xx

Negativity

Well it has been a while and I'm not going to say that I'm fully back but I will post sometimes. So I am not going to do those header things anymore its just going to go straight into it. So Hi people who read my weird blog. I got bored and I went back through my old posts and wow I cringed a lot. Like not the tiny cringe but the full fledged Dan Howell cringe and even writing this makes me cringe. But about the "lesson". Well my lesson would be don't let negativity get to you. Which seems like a very basic lesson but I'm fresh out of ideas. So I'm going to go more into this topic which is negativity.
Negativity in my words would be a negative energy from things like people, objects, spirits or anything that just doesn't feel right. So if you're dealing with negativity just don't let it consume your life because it will take a toll on you and you'll start to evolve around it. You'll even start thinking the way the negative people think. You'll make up scenarios that probably wont even happen but you'll believe it. Believe it or not you will crave negativity because you are evolved around it. Example: When someone complaints you on something like a accomplishment or a outfit that you are wearing, You first doubt them and start picking out flaws like "No this outfit makes me look chubby" (Disclaimer-I will use the word chubby because the word fat just really annoys me it is a very offensive word)  or even "Yeah I do have a B in math but I could have gotten a better grade". Don't put yourself down. (I tried to come up with examples that people could try to relate to.) Negativity will effect you and even though you guys are strangers to me I don't want to see someone suffer from negativity.
Stay positive. Xx

Take one day at a time.

Its pretty straight to the point. Just take your time.

Announcements   

I didn't get Ad's. But I won't stop trying.
Also I've looked at my older posts and I'm deleting some. I'm also editing a few posts that aren't as bad. 

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Trust

When someone shares something with you very personal. It means that you're trustworthy. Now I'm going to use one of my own personal experiences.

I never shared this with anyone. But I felt that I could trust a very close friend of mine. I told her the very personal secret and it probably was something upsetting to me.
Weeks went by and me and that persons friendship ended. She took the personal secret and shared it with people. It did upset for a while but soon enough I got over it.
But what I'm trying to say is when something happens in a relationship don't take that personal secret that the person told you and use it against them.
Its pretty short. But Its better then nothing.

Stay positive. Xx

Desperation

I've heard some person say "When you are desperate for something you'll do anything". Its a possibility that someones being desperate to get something from others means they're jealous or they want to be manipulative. My lesson is that when you are desperate for something you will do anything. 
Pretty short. 

Stay Positive. Xx